We wanted to take a minute to let our friends know that the rumor may have heard is true, Chris and I have broken up. It happened a few weeks ago in the whirlwind of his accident, the car getting totaled, marriage equality being legalized, the reality that with him on my insurance we’d have to get married and our anniversary all happening in a few days. Those events forced a clarity, that while we love each other deeply our life goals are different enough that we can’t meet them together.
Our decision is very amicable, we’re not taking steps to start separating our lives until we move in the spring as originally planned. Very little is changing in how we live, love or act right now and we intend on staying close friends. In fact, we weren’t planning on making this public until we were ready to split our lives, but since the cat is out of the bag we wanted to share this on our terms.
So that's it. If you have questions feel free to ask. Please respect the fact that this is a personal situation so not all questions will be answered, and that while it’s amicable we are both still sad about the change in our lives.