Okay so basically my boyfriend/fiancee (the fiancee thing is unofficial thus far) and I have our ups and downs and lately they've been pretty bad. Like, yeah, I fuck stuff up sometimes, but so does he. He constantly points out how I fuck up, but if I say ANYTHING, I'm just being an overdramatic bitch and pointing fingers. Anyways, so recently he was talking to a girl he works with, A, and she was wondering if he and I would consider getting a place with her. So it was just an option, totally cool, right? Until i get home from work the next night and he tells me that while i was at school and work, they planned EVERYTHING out to a T. Where furniture would go, who would pay for what, everything. Then, he told me that the two of them were going to look at a place a few days later (today, now). I wasn't included in this at all. I could move in with them at some point, if I wanted to, but they would want me to get a new job, since the place would be just a few minutes from where they work and about fifteen to twenty minutes from where I work. They would split rent, and I would pay for utilities and groceries. They didn't even ask if any of this was okay with me. They just decided it all. And since I wasn't over the moon ecstatic about it, he got rather upset with me. He also told me that whether or not I join them, he's going to move into that place with her. Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable with the whole situation?