So I'm back on OKC again, and so far... Yeah. Same old faces (of which I am one), same old collection of losers (of which I must be one as well).
And there's the same old problem -- all the interesting women are in Toronto. And I'm just not up for that. Getting to and from the T-dot takes way too much time, and is too much of a hassle. Me taking the subway in tends to make it worse, as the time component makes it a two hour trip. Driving into the city itself, well, I haven't even bothered to try it in ages. Maybe that's different now. Maybe it's better than the mess it was. Somehow I doubt it. And good luck trying to get a T.O. girl down to the Hammer.
So yeah. Toronto options only. Which isn't that much of an option.
As for local women -- holee jeebus, there's some scary shit out there. Not that I think I'm better than anyone else, but... [shudder] Compatibility problems. Let's leave it at that.
There also seems to be the usual contingent of chatters. My very first like was from a woman who changed her status to 'in a serious relationship' less than a week before. Not that serious, I guess, if you're still putting out feelers.
I hate this whole process. And in particular, I hate how addictive it all gets, checking for updates obsessively. It's maddening, and a big part of why I eventually fall away.
We'll see. Open mind and all that. But so far, it's not the least bit promising.