In total relaxation mode for #mmmay17 this holiday afternoon. I'm wearing a self-drafted knit tunic whose neckband will not lay flat because I miscalculated its length. I didn't bother to fix it because it was only ever meant to be lounge wear, and sometimes good enough is just plain good enough.
A Month of Clothing Philosophy -- Part Eleven
Not Quite a Minimalist
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and when it comes to my wardrobe accessories are clearly my weakness. This is partly situational. I’ve spent almost all of my adult life living in very small spaces with almost no room for storage. Consequently, I have less clothing than most clothes horses generally do, and very few accessories. I wear the same few pieces of jewelry again and again, mostly necklaces. I don’t have pierced ears, though I do own exactly two pairs of clip-on earrings -- and a handful of rings I wear on special occasions. (I don't usually wear bracelets at all because I don't like the sounds they make when I type.) I don’t have many purses or belts, and only a few hats. I have terrible feet and need to wear very supportive (and sometimes pricey) shoes, so I don’t really have that many -- and they’re mostly boring.
I do love scarves and have a good handful, but I often don’t think to wear them. I’m not sure that I’m really any “good” at accessorizing, but probably some of this is rebellion, too. Everyone expects a fat lady to have the best accessory collection, because that’s all she can buy in “regular” stores. Maybe I like to play against expectations.
Because of this tendency to pare back, you may think I’m a minimalist -- but I’m not. I’m definitely drawn to minimalist imagery in both fashion and decor, but I’m also drawn to gleeful overabundance. Given enough time and money, I could definitely see myself becoming one of those people with an entire room full of clothes and accessories. Realistically, though, that could be overwhelming. One of the benefits of having a smaller wardrobe is that it’s easy to choose what to wear, especially if you really like everything you have. I think that’s the idea behind minimalist capsule wardrobes, but I think having a really small variety of clothes would be too boring for me. A popular number is 33 -- just 33 items of clothing and accessories. I can’t imagine that. But I can’t really imagine having endless variety, either.
I described myself earlier as medium fat and medium femme. As a person drawn in some ways to both minimalism and maximalism, I’m again choosing a middle path. I think maybe -- to coin a phrase -- I’m a mediumist. I’m Goldilocks looking for that “just right” balance between too little and too much.
A medium sized wardrobe really is the best of both worlds. Large enough to be interesting, but small enough that favorites don’t get pushed to the back of the closet and forgotten.
Not everything is in balance yet. I probably do have too few accessories, and I think I probably have too many cardigans -- despite having only 17 right now, a stunning five year low. (I usually have 23 - 25 cardigans. Maybe that’s too many. Maybe. I don’t know. I really love cardigans. It’s hard to say.)
Still, I keep striving for balance, and I get closer all the time.