What you need to understand before you have children
Raising a child is full of surprises. No matter how many books or children's forums and sites you read, how many training videos have watched, nothing can prepare you 100% for the baby in the family. But there are some very importany things you better know before you become a newly minted parents.
Delivering a child seems easy just at first glance
Some breed like rabbits. Others can't. Many naively believe that if only want to have a baby, stop using contraception and BAM! It will happen. Not faaaaact. After all, our body is designed not just. If you are thinking about adding of the family and want to plan the pregnancy for a certain period of time, give yourself plenty of time and try not to worry throughout the period.
2. The first few months is a real torture
Probably, screaming babies are annoying, they sleep so lightly and breastfeeding is painful, all these is made only in order to strengthen the spirit of parents. Because if you survive the first few months of this crazy encampment, not having lost at the same time your mind, you are the heroes and will cope with everything and anything.
This time is hell for those who love sleep, shower and comfort. It is impossible to describe what it's like to wake up in a few months the night every two hours. Or try to calm the inconsolable crying baby. Or to feel in the body in 3 sizes more than usual (by the way, the future dads fat together with future moms). Or feel not at ease for several months or maybe even years.
In all this chaos has its advantages. In particular, however bad it gets, you will overcome all difficulties. Just don't be afraid to ask for help, especially if you suffer from postpartum depression.
The first months after the birth of a child is not only suffering and chaos. It is also amazing, full of bliss and moments of tenderness. After some time you may even start to feel sad for this nice period of life and (Oh, ya crazies!:) want to experience this torture again.
During pregnancy you constantly will need helpful information and advice not only from your loved ones, but also from experts. For this, rocketparents will help you:
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