Sam admits it. Her approach to making important life decisions have historically been lackadaisical and insecure. This is the very reason she is currently freelancing $10 below her going rate for bargain-buster-lame fashion-company where she stays late and cares too much about her performance and contribution to the company. If she couldn't say no to working for bargain-buster-lame-forgettable-fashion-joke-company, what else couldn't she say no to? Lots of things. She is now realizing that without setting standards and boundaries, she will surely end up on the street or worse— designing clothes for strippers. Actually, this sounds fun to Sam, proving the point. Sam now understands that two highly important life skills are how to say "no" and "fuck off. "Being squishy, insecure, and sensitive in nature, she cast herself out of those able to fearlessly honor themselves and their hearts desires. But today is a new day. Today, Sam is a new woman.