The person i marry cant be meaner than me. Like thats my main personality criteria. Like meanness when joking is fine. I guess i cant explain it very well.
The person i marry either has to be less 'get what i want when i want' than me or roughly the same amount as me. Like i love being the leader and in power so if ive got someone, without a more elegant way to put it, more of a pushover personality, then i can kind of see it working bc we both benefit. I get them what they want and i feel good about being the dominant one.
Not that i always have to feel that way, bc i dont, but i love getting what i want
And if were the same level of that trait then we both get each other and know our limits so its easy to work as a team
Ok wait just thought about not wanting someone whos less of a doormat than me, and i can maybe see that working too actually? Idk like since we both have power in some situations, but mine runs out and theirs wouldnt as quickly, then it might work out bc we still get what we want.
Honestly im just kind of thinking and the person i actually do marry will be wonderful bc i love them and they love me and well live happily ever after regardless of his personality