Dear young joiners of this site:
FYI: Esther is a female name. i'm 71 years old and while my libido retired a long time ago it was of heterosexual proclivities and even if not as i've noted repeatedly IT no longer controls my life. i say all this to say i am tired of nubile young women with naked photos as their avatars just out of the blue following me when i've never seen them on threads in which i'm participating.
Let me be clear nudity does not offend me. What offends me is that young women are putting them selves out there in that way to random individuals and don't even have the common sense to read some of what the person posts to get some clue who the person is. Very high-risk behavior. You paint or photo nudes as art---fine no problem...but to use as your avatar and just blindly attach yourself to people by 'following' them when you've not communicated with them in any way, or even adjacent to them on a thread---not smart.