How to Gain Charisma.
What the hell is charisma? Sometimes you hear “He’s not especially smart, but what a charisma he have!” Or “She’s not a particularly good actress, but her charisma is amazing!”. What gives a person this elusive, mysterious, and abstract thing called charisma?
Personally I believe it’s partly about having secrets. Personal secrets, if it’s about your past or something with you as a person, a belief of some kind for example, spiritual or non-spiritual, I don’t know. But it need to be something unreachable for everyone else around you.
This can’t be created just for the sake of needing a charisma. It needs to come naturally, something that’s been with you since childhood. You might be aware of it or you might not be aware of it, as long it’s there and you don’t feel the need to mention it.
I’ve touched this subject before, and I can’t state enough how important secrets is for your well-being. You will lose that charisma the moment you start talking about your secret. I’m not talking about how you look or your personality, of you have a prosthetic leg without telling anyone or being gay in secret - that’s just self-loathing, be proud of who you are and how you look.
The secrets creating your charisma is something way deeper, something way more complex, and maybe in a way only understandable by you. Check out all those celebrities who shows off their lives in gossip magazines or other trashy, shallow literature, do you really think they have charisma? It’s just like they add a mental shabby chic sign to their persona: “Hey, look at me! I’m a cool and colorful charismatic celebrity”, and the magic goes away. They strive for more attention, but the more they expose themselves as celebrities the less charisma they have and the destructive spiral just keeps going and going and going.
And soon the best way to use the articles about them is wiping your ass with out at the outhouse. Don’t worry, you don’t have to lock yourself inside your house and be a hermit, if you find a certain level of attention attractive. You just have to decide what you want to keep secret and what you want to share, and you’ll still have that desirable charisma.
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