A Conversation With Spirit Concerning Love
-Is it selfish to love someone you can’t have?
-It’s more selfish to think you can’t love someone simply because you think you can’t have them.
-But what if you can’t be with them?
-So because you can’t be with them the way you want to, ideally in your imagination, you shouldn’t love them?
-Well, what’s the point of devoting your emotions towards a person who won’t think twice about you?
-Then your answer to your original question is no, it’s not selfish to love someone you can’t have. You don’t stop loving a person’s soul, when you connect, you connect with the conscious fiber of your being. That is love. When you love in spite of malice, you will come to understand more possibilities than you have ever known.
-I guess it is selfish that I want something, or rather something beautiful with someone I find so beautiful. I see a part of myself, a beautiful part of myself that I wish to surround myself with, but the beauty is in the admiration.
-It is selfish not because you want, but because you want all that you already are. Isn't that the definition of selfishness? The beauty of love is meant to be set free. So tell me, do you equate love with admiration?
-To a degree, in a sense when you love someone, aren’t you admiring qualities about that person? I don't understand, can you not capture love?
-Perhaps, but honest love is unconditional and selfless. Love is not meant to be understood, love is simply meant to be. You cannot capture that what is. That what is free cannot be held. Love is meant to be shown, not controlled. Do you see? Love transcends beyond desire. Do not confuse the two. Honest love gives and does not take. Honest love sees without both eyes, but is not blind. For you do not choose who you love after all. Love chooses you, and only you can be willing enough to accept it when it reveals itself to you.
-What am I supposed to do then?
-Let Love guide you. Love is unconditional and fearless. There is nothing you can’t do with the power of love in you. Let it go, give it all away, do not expect anything in return. Love will always find you.
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