When someone is ‘in love’ with a monster [you better believe it], there is not a darmnm thing you can do about it.
By the way, [sometimes] being in love with a monster is a good thing. A monster is the only thing [strong enough] capable of shake/twist/test/torn your core foundation. Which in the end, makes your foundation stronger [for you and for the people that surround you]. However, in most cases, a monster makes your foundation weaker [it makes you miserable, it makes you a garbage truck, it makes you a society’s headache].
So, I will say this:
It is ok to be in love with a monster as long as you know where that monster belongs [which is: your life history resume].