My cousin's wife tells me she bled for six weeks after having her baby. She also charted the baby's poop and pee--on an excel spreadsheet, she says. For six weeks. Oh, I say. Yes, I can send it to you. I'm in Miami, we're at the funeral and she holds my hand and cries and wipes her nose on my shoulder. I can't believe it, she says. I think she is talking about the funeral, I hold her hand, but then she adds: I can't believe he came out of my vagina.