@ohelle you know, i have a ton of FB friends too. i run a couple of groups and i have a page for Weave there. i joined in 2008 and was super private at first, and until recently (after a weird incident with a pseudo-stalker) i was just like FUCK IT ALL and had shit public and pretty much approved anyone who friended me. i feel like FB is this awesome magazine curated by my friends, family, acquaintances, distance relatives, people i hated in HS, poets, writers, editors, and lots of super-smart folks. why not? it's great to connect. what's strange is when ppl i've never met know me from FB. or when ppl tell me they like my posts on FB. i never know quite what to say... "thanks, i'm glad my random musings about lunch and current affairs is engaging!" ah well, such is our modern dilemma.