I'm not going to lie, I spent a long time feeling guilty. Feeling as if I was taking someone's lover away from them, easily too. I spent days wondering what I could have done differently, often telling myself to run away from what I was feeling in order to protect another from hurting, while restricting myself from what and who I wanted. I kept telling myself I was a bad person; A bad friend.
I no longer feel guilty.
I am sorry that someone is hurting, but will not blame myself.