on friday i went out looking ambiguous and got a lot of frowns and stares. but there were also people who smiled and tried to hold my gaze too. hmm. my therapist told me she liked my natural hair. that was nice of her. one time when we were out someone mistook us for a couple and she didn't correct them. her attention was elsewhere but that didn't make it any less pleasant for me. i'm really glad she didn't see the dumb look on my face. she's really pretty so i couldn't help it.