Imagine running on the street with a girl of your choice. The sun is shining, the birds sing and you have a good time for both. Once you know the girl, you will know her personality, her choices, her likes and dislikes. "The Great!" Now you think that you know what you like, you can become her ideal man. Wrong!
You see, when you do things, "he likes you because," it seems that you are not realistic. They come in the form of a person who compromises to influence his life ... and as we all know, never try to impress anyone.
Let's say in simple words: Let's do the things you want to do.
Certainly women will not agree ... "It would not be nice if she thought of me for a second?" I do not talk about it It is good to think good and think about a special feeling about it. However, there is a good line between "turning to him" and his life.
Error # 1: Do what you want
Here's an example to illustrate my issue:
Suppose you know that she likes to go to the park to play dolphin (she will be a beautiful park ...) and she likes ice cream.
So, you expect that date to be the probability of the date or the ideal question which you suspect, the maximum "Hey, do you want to go to the park and want ice cream?"
I mean, it makes sense, right? You know that she likes it and you like it, who likes it.
It's an opponent, but the biggest mistake you can make is It provides below: "I do not think you want to try with me, which I would rather prepare a scenario I think you would like ... then you go and I would like to say it. "
If you like what she likes (and she knows you do) she sees you as an attempt to please her. We do not respect those who try to please us and instead applaud people living their lives completely.
Do whatever you want to do
So instead of doing what you think, do what you want.
"Hey, I've heard that coming out of your hands in this new place with kangaroos, I really want to go. Would you like to come?"
Okay, this is a good invitation because you do things on your terms. They do things that interest you and you do not try to please them. If you leave your thoughts, try our first tips.
Error # 2: There is no fixed provision for anything
The second mistake is that most men make that they always abandon their girl's demand. Let's take a general overview:
Girl: "Let's go out tonight! I want to dance"
Guy: "I'm tired ... I do not really feel like going"
Girl: "Oh Come, It Will not Enjoy"
Guy: "Um, maybe I do not know"
Girl: "Maybe do not say, come!"
Guy: "Ah, okay"
Girl (check it out): "Oh, if you want you can stay at home"
Guy: "Oh, Um, maybe I'll do ... I do not know, I'm tired"
Girl (Check it out): "Are you coming or not?"
Guy: "Um, I do not know"
There is a clear opinion, what you want is terrible! In this example, the girl's life is completely controlled. Although he does not want to go, he takes it to the cave because of his demand.
The worst thing is, when it realizes that it can handle it, it moves back ... to see if it actually controls it. She examines whether she has a spinal cord or is working to satisfy her. It is a matter of persuasion and a complete transformation of your mind, but it is not the other, to convince them even if they do not want to do it.
You can imagine, we respect the people we control in this way.
The option is simple: stand up and listen to the right ideas. Then, if you still agree after the debate, it is the same way.