It's suffocating how everyone thinks you'll always be around—at least for me— because sometimes you need space and what they don't get is that that space can talk place for days, weeks, months, even years to be entire. They need to know that you won't always be there when they need someone and that's okay, you won't always be there when they want to talk to you to see how you're doing and that's okay too, you won't be around for a lot of things but let them remember that you were there for tons. You were there when they had no shoulder to lean on besides you, you were there to offer a hand, you were there and you were good enough. So screw the crap that they think you're not around for something that's not critical and they start hating you for it. Pardon me for not currently being available, or don't pardon me, I don't give a crap. Maybe you need that space so much for them to stop bickering. Maybe they don't need to understand.