How to be a slut without being an asshole:
- Be interested in people as people first (de-center yourself).
- Don't assume others relate the same way you do (talk about it).
- If the person you're interested in has a partner(+) around introduce yourself to them. Don’t miss this very basic threshold of human decency.
- Take responsibility for your desires. Communicate your interests and ask for permission before acting (practice proactive consent).
- Don't wear a collar in public if you'd like to be directly approached by people. Familiarize yourself with what that is actually intended to indicate. I’m going to start keeping a leash in my bag, y’all. Be warned.