I am guilty of wanting to do all the things, getting overwhelmed and doing none of the things. If I go home after work, there is a 99% chance that I'm not heading out again. How can I feel like the community has disowned me if I am not out in it that often?
I started rebalancing my priorities in August: relearning how to be a non-performing friend, how to take time away from the stage lights, but the transformation isn't fait accompli. I like the adrenaline rush (and being busy) but friends aren't used to me being available so they aren't either, yet.