Mid-morning meditation. Sigh. Objects in photo are closer than they appear. This was just before I had to leave for lunch with a (now-divorced) contact I've known since my developer days. Not friends, but friendly. Drinks after work, etc. One time he told me, then couldn't stop talking about, his consternation that he had to keep going to the bathroom to masturbate the whole day. He said he just couldn't seem to get enough. Er...um...ok...Look. I've always been in fields that are dominated by men. I like men. I like their energy. And his story wouldn't have taken me aback at all if it were a friend telling me. But a business connection? It's been at least 10 years, and I'm still a bit grossed out. He's not bad-looking, but I'm not attracted to him at all. He wants to have drinks again. There's never been a better time to stop drinking.