Shoot, it occurred to me that when I said the meetings troubled me (see below) some might construe that as me not wanting anything to do with people who aren't all sunshine and light. That's not true at all. Individually I'm very happy to give whatever support, even if it's just a sympathetic ear, a hug, a "there, there", or whatever else might be of help to someone going through a rough time, having a bad day, etc. I just meant that the meetings themselves can sometimes be overwhelming. There. I'm glad we cleared that up.